5 Things Not to Do When He is in a Bad Mood

Marriage is the game of patience. But it is not as difficult as it is perceived to be, especially when there is an
understanding and when you know what ticks your
partner. The commonest complaint that most wives
have is that their husbands come home from work in a
bad mood and it ruins the whole evening. This triggers
tiffs and quarrels that, if happen repeatedly, can disturb
a happy marriage. To save you from this, we tell you
about 5 things that you can definitely avoid doing, if
you do not want your husband's bad mood to go from
bad to worse
1.
Stop nudging
If you can clearly see that he is in a bad mood
(whatever the reason may be), do not keep asking about
it again and again. Anger generally flares up when one
faces questions like, "Are you okay?", "Are you angry
with me?", "What is wrong with you?", etc. Talking
about his bad mood over and over again can make
things worse. In case he really feels like talking, he
would do that himself. Just give him some time to calm
down
2. Stop being too comforting
There is a difference between understanding his
problem and trying to be too comforting. When he talks
to you about his bad mood, he needs someone to hear
him out and not oblige him with comfort and solutions.
Stop suggesting how he can make things right. It is best
to just be on his side and let him do the speaking.
3. Do not start with your bad day stories
Bringing up bad situations that you might have faced
throughout the day, when he comes home tired is the
worst thing a wife can do. This will only leave him
more frustrated and irritated.
4. Do not start with your bad day stories
Bringing up bad situations that you might have faced
throughout the day, when he comes home tired is the
worst thing a wife can do. This will only leave him
more frustrated and irritated.
5. Do not suggest s*x
Your husband is already in a bad mood and you do not
really know what might tick him off. There are a lot of
women who make the mistake of suggesting s*x in such
situations. But this can actually backfire! He might feel
that you are being insensitive to his feelings and
emotions.
Put yourself in his shoes and imagine what might irk
you. Just a little patience and sensitivity will cool him
down quickly, and save your evening from getting
spoilt too.
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