HOW TRUE IS THIS--- She barely knew her Husband Before they married; He Is Too Over Controlling

I have been married for about 4yrs. I really did'nt know him very well before we got married. I knew him from church as a good guy. He is a very good christain and prayerful.
The problem is he complains about everything I do, I am
expecting our 2nd baby even when I was pregnant with our
1st child I told him I don't want him to be in the hospital
with me because he never has anything good to say to me
only finding faults.
I never have peace of mind, he tells me everything to do,
he doesn't want dirty dishes in the sink. He is just very
controlling, abusive and insensitive with words and I
always tell him. I use to think because he was a religious
person maybe he is not used to how to treat a woman, and I
will get marriage posts and send to him. Some things he
tries to change, but he still treats me badly, talks to me
anyhow and I am not used to people disrespecting me, how
much more the man I am married to.
We quarrel all the time,I cry all the time and really
miserable. I can't communicate with him, he always shut
me up, so these days I try to keep to myself even if things
are going bad. He talks down at me, supports outsiders over
me. I am a young woman and can't live like this for the
rest of my life, my happiness is very important to me even
if it means me leaving the marriage. He is a good person
but not a good husband, I really want to leave him so he
can find someone that can make him happy since I can't.
I want to leave him early so he can find someone else in
order for me to move on with my own life. I don't have a
job , I am just thinking how can I move on and survive on
my own with my kids. Pls kindly give your constructive
advice.
Thanks
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