SIMPLE REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD STAY SINGLE

For a while now my friends have been telling me i need a man and the worst part is that they find every opportunity they get to hook me up,and trust me most of this guys are not relationships material at all…..god forbid bad thing oooo. anyway my friends keep asking me to give them reasons why i don’t want to date, so i came up with some reasons why you should stay single if you can.


1)IF YOU DON’T
LIKE STRESS,STAY SINGLE: if you are the type that don’t like being stressed up with issues,stay single my dear because they are going to come up,whether you like it or yes,they will come up. most especially if you are dating iyanya’s look alike or jim iyke’s twin or you are a guy dating mercy’s johnson’s twin or omotola’s twin sister,issues must come out. so think about it very well before you say i love you babe,let’s date!



2)IF YOU DON’T WANT TO BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR SOMEONE’S LIFE,STAY SINGLE: being in a relationship mean being in-charge of someone’s else life aside yours because their problems are now your problem unless you are a self absorbed person,you are accountable for your partner. the decisions you make affect them,inasmuch as it affect you and your lifestyle has to change to suit both of you.don’t also forget that relationships are all about sacrifice so be ready to sacrifice as needed.



3)IF YOU DON’T WANT TO BE CRITICIZE MORE THAN USUAL,STAY SINGLE: i know we say,we don’t care what people say about us or feel about us but the gospel truth is that we care.we just say that to cover it up,while we die silently inside. so if you are the type that can’t stand being criticized,stay single because the moment you say yes to him,the critics double in number honey, and will continue to increase until………mmmm IF YOU CAN’T STAND THE HEAT,GET OUT OF THE KITCHEN.



4)IF YOU CAN’T HANDLE ANGER,JEALOUSY OR DON’T WANT TO BE A CRAZY BF/GF,STAY SINGLE: don’t get it twisted relationship is fun but whether you like it or yes,it is going to drive you crazy and make you angry,so if you can’t handle being called the crazy bf/gf,stay single. i know you maybe saying right now to yourself“i’m not a jealous bf/gf” which is probably true but when you like someone and in your head you think that person is going to leave you or he/she has some friend they fancy,you will be jealous-it’s a fact. trust me i know because i’m a living testimony of that(i’m not a jealous person).



5)IF YOU CAN’T ALWAYS ACCEPT THE FACT THAT,YOU WHERE NOT THE CAUSE OF THE BREAKUP,STAY SINGLE: most times when we break up,we seems to blame all the issues on ourselves.we tell ourselves we are the cause of the break up.”unless you cheated on them”you are not the cause of the breakup because i have learnt in life that who wants to be with you,will be with you ,even in some cases if you cheated,they still forgive you and accept you back because they love you and you mean a-lot to them. so if you didn’t cheat and they left you,honey,it’s their lost and you didn’t do anything wrong. but that’s by the way, if you cannot handle being dump,stay single because they will dump you even if you didn’t do anything wrong as long as they are not your adam!



these are the five reasons i found but like i said, if you can handle a relationship,go into one but if you are not ready to deal with this reasons don’t get into one so you don’t get broken. always remember that when a person breaks your heart,they take a piece of you with them and unless you are ready to lose a piece of you to someone,don’t rush into a relationship…….I URGE YOU,STAY SINGLE!

Newer Post Older Post