Top 7 Ways to Make Your BF Jealous
breakup with your boyfriend? Are you still craving for
his love & attention but not getting any? Well, we are
here to help! Don't we all know how guys get all crazy
jealous the moment they see you with another
guy….well, it's not all true! You see, a guy becomes
crazy jealous when he spots you close to another guy
only when he feels it's GENUINE, however, if you and
the new guy in your life seem to be a sham or some
silly game that you're playing, your ex won't even
bother- for he'll know you are trying to take revenge or
simply get him back. So women- play smart!
Isn't this where we go wrong!? Yes! Sometimes, to
make our ex boyfriends jealous, we end up trying so
hard that we come across as obviously insecure and
desperate! Trust me; if you're playing this game too,
you'll just kiss your one good chance of getting him
back GOODBYE. The one thing that turns men off is a
girl playing obvious games!
So chalk out a new plan, make the ex boyfriend
jealous- this time use subtlety, minimize all potential
risks, embarrassment or backlash!
STEPS
1. Mirror, Mirror on the Wall!
Rule #1 is to be happy & to look good. It's okay to be
upset for a couple of days post the breakup, but don't
get caught in self pity. But don't let the ex boyfriend
feel like he controls your life and he runs the show for
you. Instead, take a good look at yourself- ask yourself
when you went to the salon or the spa or shopping the
last time. Go out with a friend; get a sexy haircut,
manicure, pedicure, body massage! Look pretty and
you will feel like you can take on the world!
You must make an effort to pamper yourself. Treat
yourself with a pair of brand new, super sexy, high
heeled black pumps (or any other color you dig!!!),
head over to the lingerie section, go pick the latest
makeup!
2. Look & Feel Good
The next step is to work the magic with all the money
you just blew! Well, dress to kill! Put on the new
strappy dress, the gorgeous pumps, put on the new
makeup and go party. For all you know, you might
bump into your ex at a pub or a club. Trust me, seeing
you all proper and pretty, he'll be regretting that he
ended things with you!
3. Be Civil & Dignified
If you do happen to bump into the ex, keep your cool
and look dignified. You don't have to go and strike a
conversation. Let HIM come over and be the first one
to talk. When he does, be civil and polite. Trust me- it
will kill him to see you being so mature and over
him!!! Also, don't come across as being overly
friendly, so end the conversation short and walk off to
your friends. This way, you're sending out a signal that
you're still approachable, yet, not available!!!
Remember-DON'T bring up the topic of your
relationship. We do not want to sound needy again!
4. Make New Friends
You need to start hanging out with friends more often.
Be that old friends, common friends (even better) or
new friends. The more you socialize, the more you'll
keep busy. Being in a company of interesting people
will help you heal, you'll be happy and it'll show in
your personality. Start meeting new men. However,
don't get into a relationship if you're not over our ex
and you are not ready to move on. There is a possibility
that when your ex sees you with a new guy, he feels
you're over him and he moves on too! And we don't
want that yet, right?
So instead try this to get attention from him:
Hang out with common friends, people who know both
you & him. These are the people who will probably tell
your ex that you've been good lately. Even if they
don't, these are the people your EX will ask when he
wants to know how you're doing, where you are and if
you're with someone else!!
5. Drop The Awful Habits!
Everyone has their weird habits! I'm sure you have
yours. Is there anything that your ex didn't quite like
about you? It could be your habit of chewing your
nails, or being lazy and messy, or you being too loud!
Whatever it is, shake the habit! Work at yourself and
bring out the NEW you. Keep your nails neatly
trimmed, a French manicure looks great BTW! Look
good, hit the gym, and lose some weight. Be polite and
courteous, come across as polished, and upgrade
yourself, read more! Trust me, when he sees you, he'll
realize you've changed for the better and maybe he then
remembers all the wonderful times you two shared.
6. Take To Social Networks!
Let the internet be your new best friend.be civil when
you bump into him, keep in touch with common friends
and keep updating your Twitter, MySpace & facebook
accounts! Upload photos from all your road trips and
girls night outs! Casually flirt a little with other men
online. Even if you've deleted him, the common
buddies come handy once again!!! They'll for sure pass
on news to him. If he's still on your list, act mature,
don't ever bring up the breakup, and don't post sad
sorry posts!
7. Sound Busy!
Well, after all this has been going on, I'm sure he'll try
to get in touch with you. Whenever he does, be it a text
or a call; sit on it for some days. Yes, I mean
IGNORE!!! It's obvious that if he's calling you or
texting you or poking you on facebook, he wants you
BACK. This is where you need to look busy! Don't be
available, keep the upper hand and let him check his
phone or messages every hour to see if you've replied!
Give him time to think & worry. After a few days,
casually message back to say that you've been caught
up with work or a road trip with buddies and ask him
how he's doing.
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