"I Would Have Chosen Death Over Sex With My Husband" - Woman Reveals
One desperate woman says why she wanted to die not to
have sex with her husband, because she believes he was a
sex addict and wanted to "own" her body.
"My ex-husband truly believed he owned my body and that
I was in the wrong if I ever denied him access. When I
wouldn't give in to his advances because I was friggin' tired
from taking care of little kids, or not feeling well, or just
because I didn't feel like it right then, he would coldly turn
his back on me and heave deep sighs of put-upon-ness, and I
would cry myself to sleep because I just wanted to feel
loved without having to have sex."
She admits that there were warning signs in the beginning
that she had failed to take seriously:
"One of the red flags I had ignored early on in our
relationship was his comment that there was no point in
touching if it wasn't going to lead to sex."
She revealed that her then-husband would tell her he was
being considerate of her lack of desire for intimacy by
requesting sex once daily, as opposed to 2-3 times per day,
which is truly the amount of intimacy he wanted.
"I didn't realize I'd married a sex addict until years after our
wedding day. We only dated for a few months before we
got married, so basically I was still in sex-addict mode
myself when I promised to love him until I died," she
wrote, adding a startling revelation, "Eventually, I'd start
wishing I were deαd."
The woman finally divorced her husband, because she
couldn't handle it any more.
However, many of the things she stated about him were not
indicative of a sex addict. According to Florida State
University social psychologist Roy Baumeister, "Men want
sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in
the middle of it, and after many years of it."
Undoubtedly, both partners shall be very careful and
attentive as far as intimacy issues are concerned.
Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless handheld from Glo Mobile.
have sex with her husband, because she believes he was a
sex addict and wanted to "own" her body.
"My ex-husband truly believed he owned my body and that
I was in the wrong if I ever denied him access. When I
wouldn't give in to his advances because I was friggin' tired
from taking care of little kids, or not feeling well, or just
because I didn't feel like it right then, he would coldly turn
his back on me and heave deep sighs of put-upon-ness, and I
would cry myself to sleep because I just wanted to feel
loved without having to have sex."
She admits that there were warning signs in the beginning
that she had failed to take seriously:
"One of the red flags I had ignored early on in our
relationship was his comment that there was no point in
touching if it wasn't going to lead to sex."
She revealed that her then-husband would tell her he was
being considerate of her lack of desire for intimacy by
requesting sex once daily, as opposed to 2-3 times per day,
which is truly the amount of intimacy he wanted.
"I didn't realize I'd married a sex addict until years after our
wedding day. We only dated for a few months before we
got married, so basically I was still in sex-addict mode
myself when I promised to love him until I died," she
wrote, adding a startling revelation, "Eventually, I'd start
wishing I were deαd."
The woman finally divorced her husband, because she
couldn't handle it any more.
However, many of the things she stated about him were not
indicative of a sex addict. According to Florida State
University social psychologist Roy Baumeister, "Men want
sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in
the middle of it, and after many years of it."
Undoubtedly, both partners shall be very careful and
attentive as far as intimacy issues are concerned.
Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless handheld from Glo Mobile.
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