Annoying Behaviours Nigerian Guys Exhibit On Social Networks
I am going to point out some of these annoying
behaviours some Nigerian guys exhibit on social
networks as a way of enlightening them and
discouraging those that would read this article to at
least grow up and learn good human ethics to avoid
humiliation and general belittling of the Nigerian
male population.
First, women need men as much as men need
women! In fact, women need men more than men
need them even though they won't admit it cos most
guys have made it look like it is only men that need
women, that's with the rate at which some idle guys
chase girls around on the internet.
1. Commenting and liking every female posts, wall
status and picture updates:
Pls don't u guys have jobs or books to read? Must u
guys like or comment on every post or picture
updated by a girl on her facebook wall? Why are u
guys helping to boost these girls' egos and making
some unworthy girls feel like local celebrities they
aren't?
Pls dear Nigerian guys, avoid this attitude...learn to
ignore some things, be a man for once, be in
charge!...liking and commenting on every girl's
status or pictures will never make her to fall for u or
date u, go and upgrade yourself offline and stop
looking for free sex online cos if u continue
jumping online looking for free love or sex, u will
grow to hate your personality in future to come!
And do u know that the guys controlling these girls
hardly like or comment on these girls' posts or
picture updates? Be wise guys and stop wasting your
time and falling your hands.
Get busy with your life, if Oluwaseun Osewa was
busy chatting girls up and commenting on their
status and pictures without making out time to
develop this wonderful forum called nairaland, I am
sure u and I won't be here interacting today. And do
u know Seun can get any girl he wishes to have, at
least most even without liking or commenting on
their post or pics, guys pls learn and change your
ways this new year.
2. Trying to chat with every girl with pretty picture
online:
In case u don't know, know it now that so many bad
and negatively smart guys online have created
female accounts on: facebook, twitter, instagram,
BBM, etc just to be scamming naïve and freaky guys
online.
Stop falling for girls online...control your emotions
for a minute! Not all female accounts with pretty
female pictures are truly females.
And who told u that, that pretty girl u saw online
doesn't have a guy offline or guys chasing after her
in real life?
Who told u that she will fall for u when u got no
kobo, not extremely handsome and not a celebrity?
Yes the era of manna fall in Nigerian social network
has gone...I mean the era when virtually all Nigerian
girls trooped into the internet to find miracle
husband and boyfriends even when they had
boyfriends and husbands in real life, has gone!
Many Nigerian girls have been manhandled by guys
during the early era of social network windfall in
Nigeria and most have learnt that internet is not a
rosy heaven like they presumed, so u guys should
also go back offline and face your studies, career
and business and leave girls online alone and go get
the money cos that's the most guaranteed language
all Nigerian girls understand! Take it or leave it,
that's the sad truth!
3. Calling a girl they don't know and just met
online: baby, honey, darling, sexy girl, etc:
Why are u guys abusing those precious names for
C's sake? What made her your baby, honey, etc?
Stop boosting their ego cos u are the ones making
their heads to swell and u guys will still be the ones
to complain that they are ignoring u or feeling big
for u, come on guys grow up pls!
4. Sending a girl u met online recharge card:
The very first day I heard this trend from a cousin, I
was so more than angry with Nigerian guys, gosh!
And believe me, its mostly broke guys that fall for
this cos no girl will dare ask a loaded guy to send
her recharge card, for what? Who is she? Who gave
her the gut? Who is her mother?? And for you guys
exclusive info, girls don't usually ask financially
buoyant guys for money!
Financially buoyant guys don't spend much on girls!
Wizkid, Davido, Dbanj, Tuface, Olamide, Flavour,
Don Jazzy, etc don't spend a dime to get girls...they
only spend on a girl very dear to them...but for
random girls, they are the ones who spend to keep
these guys, go figure out!
I have some childhood friends and mates who work
with top oil firms and some living abroad, I can
honestly tell u that these guys don't spend a dime to
get girls...I mean hot and elegant chicks, most
working class and from high class family
backgrounds!
So guys wisen up! Go and upgrade yourself
financially and u won't need to beg any girl online
or offline for friendship and neither would u spend
to have her. Unfortunately, broke guys suffer a lot
in the hands of Nigerian girls and its cos they
refused to grow up and learn!
These same girls doing shakara for some broke guys
do fall freely for the loaded guys with swag! So u
guys don't know that girls do beg guys for love and
acquaintance? If u haven't experienced it, then its
cos u don't have swag or cash yet, so hustle more to
upgrade yourself and stop sending money or
recharge cards to girls u met online and even the
ones u know offline cos with or without you and
your meagre spending on them, they will still
survive.
Use your money to equip yourself.
Use your money to buy better clothes, dress well and
eat well.
Use your money to upgrade your certificate, search
for a better job, start a business, invest in yourself,
invest in your talent and pray to God to bless and
favour u and girls of all ages and class will be
running after u with love even without u spending a
dime! Becos chasing girls up and down will only
add more misery to your sorrows...face your future
and get it right first and watch out how far.
5. Sending a girl more than 5 messages at the same
time without waiting for her to reply your first
message:
Why should a guy in his right thinking faculty send
a girl: hi, hello, how was your day, hope u are doing
fine, just checking on u, this one u aren't replying,
talk to u later, etc and u don't expect the girl to see u
as a nuisance?
U have already told the girl that u are so idle,
jobless, needy and unwise and these are the qualities
girls hate most in a guy. If girls notice that u are
needy, forget it! If girls notice that u are idle or
jobless, then they will do their best to ignore u. So
stop bombarding their inbox with messages and wait
for a reply or quit!
6. Begging girls for sex online:
I learnt about this through a group I belong to on
one of the social networks. I heard a girl complain
about this and I was like: what da hell is wrong with
some guys?
How can u be begging a girl u don't know for sex?
Are u really okay? Anyway, I am sure this is simply
as a result of mass unemployment of guys in Nigeria
cos no busy guy will go online to beg random girls
for sex when he can afford sex in real life any time
he so wants.
Pls guys grow up and stop disgracing the entire male
folks pls and pls, its really disheartening and
disturbing.
I have also noticed a weird trend on nairaland:
It seems some guys joined nairaland just to find
girls. Pls o, nairaland isn't a dating or romance
website...if it was, then I won't be here by now. I
think and believe nairaland is a forum where u can
learn so many things and share so many things too
that's not just about hooking up with girls.
If u are wise and intelligent, u can develop yourself
using nairaland information.
You can develop or start up a business using
nairaland information.
You can grow your business (online and offline)
using nairaland information.
You can grow your career and academics using
nairaland information.
You can discover and grow your talent using
nairaland wide information base, so stop seeing
nairaland as a dating or hook up arena before u miss
out on the positive outcomes.
How can u a guy be following 20 females no single
guy and be boosting their ego?
What can u learn from most females u are following
aside to PM them and maybe to start begging them
for love and friendship.
This is 2014, u guys should better grow up and do
things that better your lives financially, academically
and otherwise.
I know that most people will shout, curse and whine
at this post, but come on, DailyNews don't have any
apology but only have this to say: change your ways,
there is always room for change in life, don't remain
a crackhead forever!
And to the females, learn good human relation, if u
think because u are a girl, that u have the right to
treat guys anyhow u like, then I have nothing to say
to u but be prepared to be treated anyhow someday
by that guy u will dash out your whole heart and
trust.
If u ladies don't know, know it now that bad news
fly so fast and guys have the most influence on their
fellow guys when it comes to relating with women,
so don't think if u treat Uche like a trash and treat
Peter like a king, that Peter won't one day get
influenced by Uche to treat women like trash.
Be reasonable and rational in your dealings with all
genders. Don't treat or relate with people based on
their social, financial or present status cos tomorrow
is pregnant and anything can happen in the next
minute, be wise, change your unworthy and negative
attitudes, remember this is new year, embrace new
life and good things so that good things will also
come your way.
Again, if u are girl, lady or woman and u can't hold
an intelligent, interesting conversation with a guy
without giving him all those one word, one letter
response of: k, kk, np, g2g, no, yes, hw, etc, then
guys will only take u as a intimacy gadget and will
never want to discuss business or vital thing with u
aside romance and sex...and that will definitely
affect your relationship or marriage in future, so
better change now for good.
Peace
behaviours some Nigerian guys exhibit on social
networks as a way of enlightening them and
discouraging those that would read this article to at
least grow up and learn good human ethics to avoid
humiliation and general belittling of the Nigerian
male population.
First, women need men as much as men need
women! In fact, women need men more than men
need them even though they won't admit it cos most
guys have made it look like it is only men that need
women, that's with the rate at which some idle guys
chase girls around on the internet.
1. Commenting and liking every female posts, wall
status and picture updates:
Pls don't u guys have jobs or books to read? Must u
guys like or comment on every post or picture
updated by a girl on her facebook wall? Why are u
guys helping to boost these girls' egos and making
some unworthy girls feel like local celebrities they
aren't?
Pls dear Nigerian guys, avoid this attitude...learn to
ignore some things, be a man for once, be in
charge!...liking and commenting on every girl's
status or pictures will never make her to fall for u or
date u, go and upgrade yourself offline and stop
looking for free sex online cos if u continue
jumping online looking for free love or sex, u will
grow to hate your personality in future to come!
And do u know that the guys controlling these girls
hardly like or comment on these girls' posts or
picture updates? Be wise guys and stop wasting your
time and falling your hands.
Get busy with your life, if Oluwaseun Osewa was
busy chatting girls up and commenting on their
status and pictures without making out time to
develop this wonderful forum called nairaland, I am
sure u and I won't be here interacting today. And do
u know Seun can get any girl he wishes to have, at
least most even without liking or commenting on
their post or pics, guys pls learn and change your
ways this new year.
2. Trying to chat with every girl with pretty picture
online:
In case u don't know, know it now that so many bad
and negatively smart guys online have created
female accounts on: facebook, twitter, instagram,
BBM, etc just to be scamming naïve and freaky guys
online.
Stop falling for girls online...control your emotions
for a minute! Not all female accounts with pretty
female pictures are truly females.
And who told u that, that pretty girl u saw online
doesn't have a guy offline or guys chasing after her
in real life?
Who told u that she will fall for u when u got no
kobo, not extremely handsome and not a celebrity?
Yes the era of manna fall in Nigerian social network
has gone...I mean the era when virtually all Nigerian
girls trooped into the internet to find miracle
husband and boyfriends even when they had
boyfriends and husbands in real life, has gone!
Many Nigerian girls have been manhandled by guys
during the early era of social network windfall in
Nigeria and most have learnt that internet is not a
rosy heaven like they presumed, so u guys should
also go back offline and face your studies, career
and business and leave girls online alone and go get
the money cos that's the most guaranteed language
all Nigerian girls understand! Take it or leave it,
that's the sad truth!
3. Calling a girl they don't know and just met
online: baby, honey, darling, sexy girl, etc:
Why are u guys abusing those precious names for
C's sake? What made her your baby, honey, etc?
Stop boosting their ego cos u are the ones making
their heads to swell and u guys will still be the ones
to complain that they are ignoring u or feeling big
for u, come on guys grow up pls!
4. Sending a girl u met online recharge card:
The very first day I heard this trend from a cousin, I
was so more than angry with Nigerian guys, gosh!
And believe me, its mostly broke guys that fall for
this cos no girl will dare ask a loaded guy to send
her recharge card, for what? Who is she? Who gave
her the gut? Who is her mother?? And for you guys
exclusive info, girls don't usually ask financially
buoyant guys for money!
Financially buoyant guys don't spend much on girls!
Wizkid, Davido, Dbanj, Tuface, Olamide, Flavour,
Don Jazzy, etc don't spend a dime to get girls...they
only spend on a girl very dear to them...but for
random girls, they are the ones who spend to keep
these guys, go figure out!
I have some childhood friends and mates who work
with top oil firms and some living abroad, I can
honestly tell u that these guys don't spend a dime to
get girls...I mean hot and elegant chicks, most
working class and from high class family
backgrounds!
So guys wisen up! Go and upgrade yourself
financially and u won't need to beg any girl online
or offline for friendship and neither would u spend
to have her. Unfortunately, broke guys suffer a lot
in the hands of Nigerian girls and its cos they
refused to grow up and learn!
These same girls doing shakara for some broke guys
do fall freely for the loaded guys with swag! So u
guys don't know that girls do beg guys for love and
acquaintance? If u haven't experienced it, then its
cos u don't have swag or cash yet, so hustle more to
upgrade yourself and stop sending money or
recharge cards to girls u met online and even the
ones u know offline cos with or without you and
your meagre spending on them, they will still
survive.
Use your money to equip yourself.
Use your money to buy better clothes, dress well and
eat well.
Use your money to upgrade your certificate, search
for a better job, start a business, invest in yourself,
invest in your talent and pray to God to bless and
favour u and girls of all ages and class will be
running after u with love even without u spending a
dime! Becos chasing girls up and down will only
add more misery to your sorrows...face your future
and get it right first and watch out how far.
5. Sending a girl more than 5 messages at the same
time without waiting for her to reply your first
message:
Why should a guy in his right thinking faculty send
a girl: hi, hello, how was your day, hope u are doing
fine, just checking on u, this one u aren't replying,
talk to u later, etc and u don't expect the girl to see u
as a nuisance?
U have already told the girl that u are so idle,
jobless, needy and unwise and these are the qualities
girls hate most in a guy. If girls notice that u are
needy, forget it! If girls notice that u are idle or
jobless, then they will do their best to ignore u. So
stop bombarding their inbox with messages and wait
for a reply or quit!
6. Begging girls for sex online:
I learnt about this through a group I belong to on
one of the social networks. I heard a girl complain
about this and I was like: what da hell is wrong with
some guys?
How can u be begging a girl u don't know for sex?
Are u really okay? Anyway, I am sure this is simply
as a result of mass unemployment of guys in Nigeria
cos no busy guy will go online to beg random girls
for sex when he can afford sex in real life any time
he so wants.
Pls guys grow up and stop disgracing the entire male
folks pls and pls, its really disheartening and
disturbing.
I have also noticed a weird trend on nairaland:
It seems some guys joined nairaland just to find
girls. Pls o, nairaland isn't a dating or romance
website...if it was, then I won't be here by now. I
think and believe nairaland is a forum where u can
learn so many things and share so many things too
that's not just about hooking up with girls.
If u are wise and intelligent, u can develop yourself
using nairaland information.
You can develop or start up a business using
nairaland information.
You can grow your business (online and offline)
using nairaland information.
You can grow your career and academics using
nairaland information.
You can discover and grow your talent using
nairaland wide information base, so stop seeing
nairaland as a dating or hook up arena before u miss
out on the positive outcomes.
How can u a guy be following 20 females no single
guy and be boosting their ego?
What can u learn from most females u are following
aside to PM them and maybe to start begging them
for love and friendship.
This is 2014, u guys should better grow up and do
things that better your lives financially, academically
and otherwise.
I know that most people will shout, curse and whine
at this post, but come on, DailyNews don't have any
apology but only have this to say: change your ways,
there is always room for change in life, don't remain
a crackhead forever!
And to the females, learn good human relation, if u
think because u are a girl, that u have the right to
treat guys anyhow u like, then I have nothing to say
to u but be prepared to be treated anyhow someday
by that guy u will dash out your whole heart and
trust.
If u ladies don't know, know it now that bad news
fly so fast and guys have the most influence on their
fellow guys when it comes to relating with women,
so don't think if u treat Uche like a trash and treat
Peter like a king, that Peter won't one day get
influenced by Uche to treat women like trash.
Be reasonable and rational in your dealings with all
genders. Don't treat or relate with people based on
their social, financial or present status cos tomorrow
is pregnant and anything can happen in the next
minute, be wise, change your unworthy and negative
attitudes, remember this is new year, embrace new
life and good things so that good things will also
come your way.
Again, if u are girl, lady or woman and u can't hold
an intelligent, interesting conversation with a guy
without giving him all those one word, one letter
response of: k, kk, np, g2g, no, yes, hw, etc, then
guys will only take u as a intimacy gadget and will
never want to discuss business or vital thing with u
aside romance and sex...and that will definitely
affect your relationship or marriage in future, so
better change now for good.
Peace
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